How have you been filling your summer days?
I took an impromptu trip to Talkeetna, Alaska this weekend and stayed at a charming youth hostel there. I love the connections and conversations when I’m in a hostel, and caught up on reading and writing.
Here’s what caught my eye this weekend in the topics that matter to me:
How to Save Your Kids from Future Abusive Relationships– author Lois M.Collins draws a correlation between children who are bullied or bossed later becoming susceptible to becoming victims.
“Parents should help children build “extreme self-esteem.” Kids who see themselves as capable and loved more often avoid abuse.
Conversations with children about bullies and bossy friends can reinforce the idea that people don’t get to control others.”
International Child Abduction
New legislation to help victim-parents recover their kidnapped children has passed handily in the Senate.
The “Sean and David Goldman International Child Abduction Prevention and Return Act,” designed to bolster the government’s ability to help parents rescue abducted children taken overseas, now goes to the House for approval.
(For those of you who don’t remember, David Goldman is the dad whose son was taken illegally to Brazil to live with his mother, who then subsequently died. Five years passed before David Goldman was able to reunite with his son.)
“As a parent, I cannot imagine the emotional toll of having a child abducted and taken abroad and feeling helpless to get your son or daughter back,” said Sen. Robert Menendez, D-N.J., who introduced the bill with Sen. Bob Corker, R-Tenn. “I encourage my colleagues in the House to act swiftly to protect our children.”
Author’s comment: As a parent of internationally abducted children, I can’t imagine that the government’s efforts towards anything other than kidnapping prevention will be useful. The government isn’t smart enough, rich enough, or powerful enough to manage such a complex issue. My past experience taught me the more government inserted itself, the more problematic finding solutions became. Let’s hope I’m wrong.
Reuniting with Lost Family Members
Always my favorite subject, I love this story about a brother and sister reuniting after 50 years.
Their recognition of each other was immediate as they walked toward each other with open arms. After a long embrace, Roger leaned back and looked at Susan.
“She’s the best thing I ever saw,” he said, planting a brotherly kiss on the top of her head. “She was always my girl.”
And today, I listened to July’s podcast from the National Association of Memoir Writers (NAMW) Roundtable event about PubSlush, the crowd-funding site specifically for writers. It’s an interesting concept that, according to their website, combines “a global crowdfunding and analytics platform for the literary world.”
If you’re a writer, or thinking about starting to write, do consider a membership at the NAMW. I learn something new every month. On the column to the right, you’ll find a link I have on my site. It was a great, yet modest investment!
Thanks for connecting with me.